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		<title>The Suzuki Foundation vs Children&#8217;s Minds</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Dec 2011 05:58:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Global Warming is melting Santa's Home.  Where will he live??  Indoctrinating children is nothing new for David Suzuki and his foundation.  When a child's capacity to reason is undercut by indoctrination, he becomes a marionette merely responding as someone else pulls his strings. <a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/12/04/the-suzuki-foundation-vs-childrens-minds/">Read More <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">KIDS! </span></strong><strong style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #ff0000;">Santa is losing his home!!<br />
</span></strong><strong style="text-align: left;">Save Santa&#8217;s home from melting─<br />
</strong>Send us money!</p>
<p><a style="font-size: 12px; font-weight: bold; line-height: 18px; text-align: center; background-color: #f1f1f1;" href="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Suzuki-Where-Will-Santa-Live.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-1706 " title="Suzuki - Where Will Santa Live" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Suzuki-Where-Will-Santa-Live-1024x767.jpg" alt="Suzuki Foundation and Child Indoctrination" width="740" height="554" /></a></p>
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<p>What kid wouldn&#8217;t want to help Santa? And the message to parents?<br />
&#8220;Play along, or look like a creep in your kids&#8217; eyes.&#8221;</p>
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">But if you play along, what <em>will you</em> be playing at?</span></div>
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Kids don&#8217;t ask if Santa is real&#8230; you said he was.</span></div>
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">Tell them the North Pole is melting, and they&#8217;ll believe you.  </span></div>
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">They&#8217;ll ask <em>why</em>, not whether it&#8217;s true.</span></div>
<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">The Suzuki Foundation may intend this as a light-hearted fund raiser, but it is loaded with the deception and indoctrination of children, and with a subtle blackmailing of parents:</span></div>
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<li>expose Santa to your kid,</li>
<li>be an environmental curmudgeon, or</li>
<li>support Santa, (in effect paying the Suzuki Foundation &#8216;hush&#8217; money).</li>
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<p>The Suzuki Foundation and many other Environmentalists often target children with such brainwashing approaches, <em>and they are not joking! </em>(See below for examples.) No matter what your opinion on global warming, the <em><strong>method</strong></em> used by the Suzuki Foundation is terribly wrong.</p>
<p><em>WhereWillSantaLive</em> counts on prior indoctrination, and adds to it.  By simplistic understandings indoctrination generates such emotions as fear, pity, disgust, or anger, in a way that draws in <em>untrained </em>or undisciplined minds.  Indoctrination replaces judgment with prejudice, whether or not the simplifications are valid.</p>
<p>Indoctrination is particularly craven when used on children.  That <span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 27px;">David Suzuki &amp; his Foundation have stooped that low,</span> reveals how little they care about how children use facts and develop reasoning skills.  C<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 25px;">ontrary to the Foundation&#8217;s persistent claims of holding the scientific &amp; moral high ground, their approach</span> also reveals how little <em>they</em> <em>care</em> about facts and reason<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 27px;">.</span></p>
<p>The subject of indoctrination can vary widely.  It is not enough to talk about indoctrination; one must <em>see</em> it in action. Religion is infamous for its use of indoctrination on children. This video shows the reality (yes, it is as racist as it is religious).  Notice the degree of happiness shown by the announcer.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">In the next video you will see a 9 year old who has been trundled before the adult politicians and scientists at the 1992 <em style="border-width: initial; border-color: initial;">United Nations Conference on Environment and Development</em>, in Rio de Janiero, Brazil.  She presents a plea to save the planet.  Yet, so young a child is completely without the necessary scientific, economic or philosophical <em>understanding</em> needed to form any rational opinion on Environmental Issues.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;"><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/TQmz6Rbpnu0?rel=0" frameborder="0" width="640" height="480"></iframe></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">That was Suzuki&#8217;s daughter, Severn.  Perhaps she put the phrases together, but the phrases are not her own. She is too young to understand their full implications. Whatever she presented, her father has convinced her is true and sufficient knowledge.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It is immoral enough to lead children into a life of ongoing fear, hatred or anger (heard in Severn&#8217;s tone), but the wrongdoing runs more deeply.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">The Fundamental Abuse</h3>
<p>Indoctrinated children are (mis)lead to believe that <strong>the means by which they are indoctrinated exemplifies reasoning</strong>.</p>
<p>A child&#8217;s capacity for reason is her single most important and powerful faculty. Reason sets her apart from animals.  She needs reason to survive and be happy. Reason, or lack of it, establishes her character and does much to establish <em>who she is</em>.</p>
<p>Indoctrination undercuts her ability to learn and use reason.  She becomes a marionette, responding as someone else pulls strings.  On that day in 1992, Severn was her environmentalist-father&#8217;s puppet.</p>
<p>Suzuki &amp; his foundation have long had a significant <a href="http://www.emcstlawrence.ca/20111110/Lifestyle/Suzuki+visits+schools+across+Canada+during+virtual+classroom" target="_blank">influence in public schools</a>.  What does that say of the schools and teachers who condone his methods?</p>
<p>It would be fascinating to assemble a varied assortment of video samples, or well sourced quotations, of indoctrination on various subjects to the comments below.</p>
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<p>More examples of indoctrination.</p>
<p><a title="The Story of Stuff - Child Indoctrination " href="http://youtu.be/OqZMTY4V7Ts" target="_blank">The Story of Stuff</a>   Within 60 seconds, Annie Leonard begins telling us we are running out of everything and wrecking the planet.  Elements of truth, combined with exaggeration and scaremongering, to acquire a following.</p>
<p><a title="Jesus Camp - Child Indoctrination" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LACyLTsH4ac" target="_blank">Jesus Camp</a>  A pentecostal summer camp for children who spend their summers learning and practicing their &#8220;prophetic gifts&#8221;, and being taught that they can &#8220;<em>take back America for Christ.</em>&#8221; Note the speaking tongues, the reference to Harry Potter, and how Pastor Becky Fisher claims she talks with God!</p>
<p>“<em>Give me the child until he is seven and I’ll give you the man</em>” ~attributed to the Jesuits, perhaps St. Francis Xavier, Ignatious Loyola or Baltasar Gracián.</p>
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		<title>The Principle Anti-Bullying Activists Don&#8217;t Get.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2011 08:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Little could do more to increase the harm to victims of verbal bullying than does the recent public service announcement, “Words Hurt”. . . . Imagine if the bullied girl in the video knew that the bully words were nonsense?  The ‘flying words’ would never touch her and she would not be hurt.   Walking away would be <i>easy</i>. <strong>Imagine how empowering that would be!</strong>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Little could do more to increase the harm to victims of verbal bullying than does the recently televised, Canadian, public service announcement, “Words Hurt” (by Concerned Children’s Advertisers<span style="color: #ff0000;">*</span>).  If children need to mentally shield themselves from slurs, insults and gossip, &#8220;Words Hurt&#8221; tells them there is no shield.  Indeed, Bullying Canada&#8217;s &#8220;What is Bullying&#8221; web page calls the idea of this shield, “Myth #4”.</p>
<p>But that &#8216;shield&#8217; does exist, and is found in the principle that lies behind these words:</p>
<div id="attachment_1698" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 220px"><a href="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Love-Yourself.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1698" title="Love Yourself" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Love-Yourself.jpg" alt="The first defense against bullying is to love yourself" width="210" height="139" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Being good, and knowing you are good, is the first defense against verbal bullying.</p></div>
<blockquote><p>Sticks and stones can break my bones,<br />
but words can never hurt me.</p></blockquote>
<p>Its grade school wording is deceptive.  One may think the principle is simplistic and of little influence.  Not so.  As a teacher, I have taught it to verbally bullied young teenagers, and I&#8217;ve seen tears of appreciation as understanding dawned on the victim. Often, the bullying then died away. That shield is a principle that can save tens of thousands of children &amp; adults from unnecessary stress, from damaged self esteem, and even from suicide.</p>
<h3>What&#8217;s behind the principle:</h3>
<p>We all know bullying starts with harsh words &amp; tones of criticism towards the potential victim (the “target”). The bully is obviously not seeking friendly discussion.  He wants to establish superiority.  If the target shows shyness, fear, annoyance or anger, the bully quickly senses that he can influence his victim, right where it hurts. He has established, wordlessly, a kind of control, a superiority.</p>
<p>Worse, his target’s response <em>proves</em> it!</p>
<p>For bullying to really work, the target must unthinkingly accept the criticism as a <em>meaningful</em> personal attack. The victim’s wordless response is (e.g.):  “Debbie thinks I am a loser because I am so out-of-fashion!&#8221;  [fat, slow, ugly, a Paki, a Jew, gay, clumsy, <em>etc.</em>] Whether it is based in truth or not, she has accepted her position as a <em>victim</em>!</p>
<p>Even if the bully hits upon some small truth about his target, that truth<strong> does not define the entire person</strong>. The bully, of course, counts on the target believing it does.</p>
<p>So, both believe, wordlessly and very personally, that <strong><em>what other people think &amp; say matters</em></strong> —matters more than facts and more than the entire character of the victim.</p>
<p>&#8220;Words Hurt&#8221; shows the logical consequence, and offers no solution:</p>
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<p>Imagine if the bullied girl in the video knew that the bully words were nonsense?  The ‘flying words’ would never touch her and she would not be hurt.   Walking away would be <em>easy</em>.</p>
<p>Imagine how empowering that would be!</p>
<h3>The Principle:</h3>
<blockquote><p><strong>Bully words are nonsense that can only harm you with <em>your</em> permission.</strong></p></blockquote>
<p>Parents and teachers must teach the grade-school-saying, the ideas it depends upon, and the principle.</p>
<p>To help younger &#8216;targets&#8217; of bullying to understand, suggest they think of  the bully as a dog on the other side of a fence, barking its fool head off.  The barking is a bit annoying, but all that barking is just meaningless noise&#8230; “<em>Nothing worth taking seriously!</em>”  Really, it isn&#8217;t.</p>
<p>By early high school, students should be able to understand the principle itself, be able to explain it, and to live by it.   These <a title="stories portraying independence" href="http://valuedminds.com/reviews/?age=&amp;vm_virtue_vice=independence-1" target="_blank">stories</a> <em>show</em> characters who withstand bullies using their own sensible judgement.</p>
<p>Even if the bullying becomes threatening or violent (a greater problem and a legal issue), the child who understands the principle behind &#8220;<em>words can never hurt me</em>&#8221; knows the problem is <em>not him</em>, it&#8217;s the bully!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;" dir="ltr">— Bullying Awareness and Prevention Week 2011: Nov 14 &#8211; 20 —</p>
<p style="text-align: left;" dir="ltr"><span style="color: #ff0000;">*</span> The CCA may be hoping to arouse empathy to encourage support for victims &amp; more direct action against bullying, but this is no way to do it.</p>
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		<title>Improper English in children&#8217;s books.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jul 2011 17:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You have found a popular book for children, but notice the narration deliberately uses mangled English. Is it a harmless quirk used to reach kids at their own 'level', or something more cynical? <a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/07/31/improper-english-in-childrens-books/">Read More <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/ihasahorse.gif"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-1282 alignright" title="ihasahorse" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/ihasahorse-150x137.gif" alt="The kitten is on a horse's back, saying, &quot;i has a horse&quot;." width="150" height="137" /></a>You&#8217;ve picked up a popular book for children (under 14), but you quickly notice that the <em>narrator </em>of the story uses a great deal of improper English, and language typical of kids-trying-to-be-cool&#8217;.  What do you make of it?</p>
<p><a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/07/31/improper-english-in-childrens-books/grammar_crackers/" rel="attachment wp-att-1281"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-1281" title="grammar_crackers" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/grammar_crackers-150x89.jpg" alt="Imagine a cracker box graphic saying, &quot;THESE IS GOOD&quot;." width="150" height="89" /></a>Is it a cute thing for a children&#8217;s book?<br />
Does it have literary merit for your child?<br />
What if it included swearing?<br />
What if the reader was not shown corrected wordings?</p>
<p>Children do not know what constitutes good quality writing and what does not.  They do not yet know the appropriate context for certain language and what is not.  They may not know whether a break with quality and context is a literary device, or a legitimate way of writing or speaking.</p>
<p>Consider this narrator (also a Grade One student in the story):</p>
<blockquote><p>Just then I <span style="color: #ff6600;">quick stopped</span> writing.<br />
&#8216;Cause I couldn&#8217;t believe my eyeballs!<br />
That <span style="color: #ff6600;">snoopy-head</span> May was stretching her neck across the aisle!<br />
And was reading my journal page!<br />
<a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/07/31/improper-english-in-childrens-books/junie-b-first-grader-jingle-bells-batman-smells/" rel="attachment wp-att-1288"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1288" title="Junie B First Grader Jingle Bells Batman Smells" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Junie-B-First-Grader-Jingle-Bells-Batman-Smells-150x145.jpg" alt="Junie B Jones books rely on a narrator using poor English." width="150" height="145" /></a>I slammed my book shut <span style="color: #ff6600;">speedy fast</span>.<br />
. . .<br />
<em>[Calling on the teacher:]</em><br />
&#8220;Mr. Scary! Mr. Scary!&#8221; she <span style="color: #ff6600;">hollered real loud</span>.<br />
. . .<br />
<em>[a tussle over the journal ensued]</em><br />
I pulled and pulled with all of my might!<br />
And <span style="color: #ff6600;">me and my journal</span> went flying back to my seat.<br />
I hugged <span style="color: #ff6600;">my book all safe and sound</span>.*</p></blockquote>
<p>Readers know what narrator Junie B. means, and children enjoy the stories.  But children may not recognize the mistakes, and could copy them.  Many of the mistakes, such as &#8220;quick stopped writing&#8221; are contrived, the author&#8217;s pleased display of the finding new ways to corrupt English.  Speaking of the Junie B Jones series, one editor at &#8220;bellaonline&#8221; observes,</p>
<blockquote><p>Parents dislike the inclusion of the poor grammar. Parents of children for whom English is a Second Language say her English confuses their children.</p></blockquote>
<p>The <em>narrating</em> voice in literature for young children should never be based in corrupt English.  If a <em>character</em> uses corrupt English, the author must compose dialogue in a way that clearly contrasts the good and poor use of language, so the child reader can easily grasp the difference.  That cannot be done when the narrator is also a linguistically challenged character in the book.</p>
<p>Purposeful use of poor English, in a children&#8217;s book, appears to be rationalized as communicating at a juvenile reading level and/or an appeal to the young reader&#8217;s need for peer acceptance.  I&#8217;m not sure which is the more cynical and condescending.</p>
<p>Sure, the child reading the odd book with corrupt English will get past it, but why put them through it at all?  There are thousands of smart children&#8217;s books out there that are better written and at least as entertaining.</p>
<h6>*  <em>Junie B., First Grader: Jingle Bells, Batman Smells! (P.S. So Does May)</em>, by Barbara Park</h6>
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		<title>Teaching Independence —without teaching.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 22:40:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[She could choose, entirely on her own, what she was going to do next.  There was a side benefit:  I could get other things done, nearby, and could reduce my time at baby play, which I found unbearably boring! <a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/29/teaching-independence-%e2%80%94without-teaching/">Read More <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1688" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/2001-11-Melissa-.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1688" title="2001 11 Melissa" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/2001-11-Melissa--300x225.jpg" alt="She's at the computer." width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">At the computer, unguided. Fortunately, she&#39;s right handed.</p></div>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The trick lies in <em>appearing </em>to be a hands off parent.</p>
<p>From a safe distance, I let my baby daughter make her own choices and actions —within the scope of her ability. I would play with her at frequent intervals, and then sit back. As she grew older our play intervals grew shorter, though supervision remained the same.</p>
<p>From the time she could sit up, I positioned toys, baby bottle, cookie snacks, etc., where she would have to deliberately turn or reach to use whichever she wanted. If she threw one away, I did not retrieve it. She would get it back after a nap, a meal, or other change in her day. As she reached the crawling stage, I positioned toys (according to her mobility) around the room. She had to crawl to them to use them.</p>
<p>This popular YouTube video shows how thoroughly a child can entertain his or her self, despite a minimum of parental interaction (edited out):</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;<br />
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<p>I did not want my daughter to rely on my being at her disposal.  I wanted her to choose, entirely on her own, what she was going to do next. Doting parents stifle a child&#8217;s mind. There was a side benefit in her entertaining herself.  I could get other things done, nearby, and could reduce my time at baby play, which I found unbearably boring  (undiagnosed sleep apnea had me falling asleep on the floor beside her).</p>
<p>She quickly learned not to throw away toys she might want later, and would choose what she wanted to do, rather than cry for me to entertain her. If she threw away a toy, she had her own motivation to retrieve it.</p>
<p>The consequences were almost miraculous. As a toddler, if she was being bothered by her older sister, she would take the toys she wanted to a different room, without a fuss. If she wanted something, she would ask without whining.  If you asked her to wait, she would do something else.</p>
<p>Her independence extended to how she related to friends. I promoted sharing &amp; helping as something one does with friends (people she valued) ─but some personal &amp; important things are not for just anybody.  To this end, when friends were coming over, we would choose what toys should not be shared, and put them away.  The combination of independent play &amp; chosen sharing worked well when she began school.</p>
<p>At ~3.0 yrs of age she entered Montessori Casa-1.  She immediately took to the idea of working on her own &#8216;manipulatives&#8217;. If other children bothered her she would ask them to leave her alone, or ask them why they were not playing with their own manipulative. It was natural to her not to bother them.</p>
<p>If a classmate did not see how to use a manipulative, she would help.  Her motivation to help was not a dependence on friendship or obedience to required niceness, it was simple decency.  Her attitude set an example that helped the other children focus. By grade three she would try to get her homework done while in the car driving home, because it was hers to do.  Then she could play with friends, once home.</p>
<p>Ten years later, her daily behavior reflects that independence of thought and action.</p>
<p>Have you had a similar success using a different method?</p>
<p>[Update: added video ─very relevant─ &#038; minor edits that required.]</p>
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		<title>Children&#8217;s Literature: enduring creation or ca$h caprice?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Jun 2011 17:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The children's book industry is more like journalism:
"<em>. . . journalism and scholarship seem completely unlike: journalism so bustling, feverish, [quite] content with daily oblivion; the academic world so sheltered, deliberate and hopeful of enduring products.</em>" Allan Nevins <a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/19/creation-or-caprice/">Read More <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a rel="attachment wp-att-1220" href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/19/creation-or-caprice/allan_nevins/"><img class="size-full wp-image-1220 alignleft" title="Allan_Nevins" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Allan_Nevins-e1297138444999.jpg" alt="Allan Nevins sought to wed scholarship with journalism." width="140" height="140" /></a><em><strong> A</strong>t first glance the traditions of journalism and scholarship seem completely unlike: journalism so bustling, feverish, <span style="color: #999999;">[quite]</span> content with daily oblivion; the academic world so sheltered, deliberate and hopeful of enduring products.  It is true that both are concerned with ascertainment and diffusion of truth.  In journalism, however, the emphasis falls on a rapid diffusion of fact and idea, in academic work it falls on a prolonged, laborious ascertainment. </em>— <a title="to Columbia University's 250th yr celebration web site." href="http://www.c250.columbia.edu/c250_celebrates/remarkable_columbians/allan_nevins.html">Allan Nevins</a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Every year, publishers produce an avalanche of new children&#8217;s picture books, short stories, childrens&#8217; animated TV programs and movies, hoping for marketable characters, .  In the U.S., the number of new children&#8217;s books published annually, ranges from 2,000 to almost 5,000!  A parent struggling to find stories of <em>value</em> faces a considerable challenge. Yet&#8230;<span id="more-1219"></span></p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">In the United States, half the books printed in 2002, and shipped to booksellers, were returned to the publishing company to be remaindered or destroyed (<em>Association of American Publishers)</em>. In the U.S., it is estimated, of the books printed that do get sold to individuals, 95 percent are never read.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">What an incredible waste.  Presumably, the books are not sufficiently informative, or relevant, or captivating.  Titles and cover graphics probably suggest more <em>value</em> than is provided, so the owner gave up reading it.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Bottom denominator</h3>
<div id="attachment_1221" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 150px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-1221" href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/19/creation-or-caprice/richard_was_a_picker/"><img class="size-full wp-image-1221" title="Richard_Was_A_Picker" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Richard_Was_A_Picker-e1297138149674.jpg" alt="Good Children's Books do not focus on crude silliness." width="140" height="152" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">A booger for your child&#39;s thoughts.</p></div>
<p>With all the wonderful things in the world, with all the difficulties &amp; challenges life can deliver, and the fabulous, exemplary, art, what self-respecting adult markets a vulgar book to children (positive ending notwithstanding)? So what if the outstandingly vulgar catches attention and sells, &#8230; guess what?  It&#8217;s still outstandingly vulgar.</p>
<p>The pop music industry seems to be the model for many a children&#8217;s book publishing department.  Song after forgettable song is thrust over the airwaves.  Song lyrics, melodies and accompanying videos, are selected for &#8216;catchiness&#8217; and shock  value — more sex, vulgarity,  <em>etc</em>. —aimed at  ever younger kids, indiscriminately pursuing <em>any</em> possible audience.  It is an affront to decent sensibility.<br />
Children&#8217;s literature suffers the same shame.</p>
<h3>Haystack&#8217;s &amp; Needles</h3>
<div id="attachment_761" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 160px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-761" href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/19/creation-or-caprice/hanas_suitcase/"><img class="size-full wp-image-761 " title="Hana's_Suitcase" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Hanas_Suitcase-e1297137792794.jpg" alt="Teach children about The Holocaust, Nazis &amp; WW2." width="150" height="178" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">A lifetime collectible!</p></div>
<p>Let the publishers do whatever they like because, buried in this marketing mêlée there <strong>are</strong> wonderful books by wonderful authors. The trick lies in finding them.</p>
<p>Help out.  Buy the better books from VM.  We pass on the royalties those authors deserve, and VM can grow to find more titles to parents who care, as do we.   If you know of a good one, re-read it to see if it really fits our standards (see <a title="Our Approach" href="http://valuedminds.com/our-approach/">Our Approach</a>) then, after due consideration,  let us know.</p>
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		<title>Children&#8217;s Literature: A Woozy Zoo</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2011 04:32:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Imagine publishers &#038; authors explaining excellence in children's literature:  
"<em>The only parallel I can think of is having the zoo come to you, one animal at a time; and I expect that what you hear one week from the giraffe is contradicted next week by the baboon.</em>" — Flannery O'Connor <a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/08/the-woozy-zoo/">Read More <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You  are a Literature Professor, still nervous, teaching the first month of a course of your own design.  The famous  American author, Flannery O&#8217;Connor has agreed to visit, as a guest  lecturer.  She begins:</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;"><a rel="attachment wp-att-1214" href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/08/the-woozy-zoo/mary-flannery-oconnor/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1214" title="Mary Flannery O'Connor" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Mary-Flannery-OConnor-e1297221864235.jpg" alt="O'Connor's best known work is &quot;A Good Man is Hard to Find&quot;, consistent with her life as a spinster." width="155" height="197" /></a>I understand that this is a course called &#8220;How the Writer Writes&#8221;, and that each week you are exposed to a different writer who holds forth on the subject. The only parallel I can think of to this is having the zoo come to you, one animal at a time; and I expect that what you hear one week from the giraffe is contradicted next week by the baboon. — Flannery O&#8217;Connor</p>
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<p>Now, you  knew some students in your class liked the ‘higher’ ideas the  &#8216;Giraffe&#8217; put forth. Others had preferred the earthly perspective of  the &#8216;Baboon&#8217;.</p>
<p>O’Connor’s introduction is a bit of an embarrassment!  Is she suggesting your course advocates a <em>woozy</em>, “anything goes” approach,  or is it the useful survey of ideas you intended?</p>
<p>Then you wonder if you, their sage and mentor, are unsure, how are students to choose?  Does she really think definite writing principles are possible?  Is  O’Connor the wise &#8216;Owl&#8217;, arguing for objective and enduring methods of writing?   Will she change the Baboon lovers&#8217; minds, or will they clamor that Miss Owl  is taking the fun out of writing?</p>
<p>A little humor would win  over the &#8216;Baboons&#8217;. But the &#8216;Giraffes&#8217; would find such humor beneath  them.  A lofty, academic approach would sway the Giraffes, but have you ever seen a Baboon sway?  An off duty longshoreman comes to mind.</p>
<p>Suddenly you feel threatened.  This Owl has all but neutralized the Baboons and Giraffes &#8230;as well as <em>the point of your  course</em>!  You&#8217;ve no choice.</p>
<p>After she leaves, you must assert  your most academically confident posture.  You remind your class that  writing is largely a matter of personal talent, with no clear standards.</p>
<p><em>Woozy </em>has won.</p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-1216" href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/08/the-woozy-zoo/monkey_do/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1216" title="Monkey_Do" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Monkey_Do-e1296879196599.jpg" alt="Better Children's books have a better purpose than silliness." width="130" height="100" /></a>Children&#8217;s Literature is like a big Woozy Zoo with many wings and outbuildings.  It has a  wings for the literary-academics,  the award givers, the  children&#8217;s book publishers, the celebrity-writers, the librarians, and  the illustrator-writers.  It&#8217;s an idea parade just like the Professor&#8217;s woozy course.</p>
<p>For radical wooze, there is even the Activist Labyrinth!</p>
<p><a rel="attachment wp-att-1215" href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/06/08/the-woozy-zoo/frindle-2/"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1215" title="Frindle" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/Frindle-e1296876346947.jpg" alt="Good Children's Books do not present words as wholly arbitrary." width="118" height="175" /></a>This Labyrinth has many dead ends.  Each harbors the desk of a mind driven by issues of race,  religion, by Gaia and things &#8216;green&#8217;, by multiculturalism, &#8216;social justice&#8217;, female chauvinism, revisions of  history, animal &#8216;rights&#8217;, and even the origin of  words (-why <em>not</em> call a pen a &#8220;frindle&#8221;?).</p>
<p>The Labyrinth&#8217;s tunnels provide many a &#8216;politically correct&#8217; book with a route  to the least discriminating wing of the Zoo, whereby it can emerge to an undeserved light-of-day —for publication to unsuspecting, seven year old, children!</p>
<p>Children&#8217;s literature needs more Owls.  Recommend some books of <em>owlish</em> quality in the comments below (please consider our standards, explained on the <a href="http://valuedminds.com/our-approach/vm-literary-elements/" target="_blank">Literary Elements</a> page)</p>
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		<title>Baby Sense</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Apr 2011 04:02:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had seen something more wonderful than seeing her first steps.  I had seen her think.
At only 7 months of age, she <em>tested</em> to see if a decorative margin was part of our carpet, or not. (The pic is of her, 3 yrs later) <a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/04/26/baby-sense/">Read More <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/04/26/baby-sense/babyrug/" rel="attachment wp-att-1263"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1263" title="BabyRug" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/babyRug-300x163.jpg" alt="Good rug designs can help babies learn to use their senses." width="300" height="163" /></a>In her seventh month, KAKB was just learning to crawl.  I saw her notice that the rug had an edge decoration that made a distinct line, a few inches before the true edge (like the white line in the image).  She stopped and looked at that edge for as much as 5 seconds. Was something wrong?  . . . to her, there was.</p>
<p>She reached out her hand to grab that decorative edge.  Her fingers poked and pulled at that edge, trying to lift it.  Then she reached forward and pulled on the actual edge.  Up it came from our hardwood floor!  As soon as she knew the real edge, she lost interest.  But, she <em>knew</em>!</p>
<p>I had seen something in her that was <em>more</em> wonderful than baby&#8217;s first steps!</p>
<p>Her mind had asked, wordlessly, <em></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;<em>Is this first edge a part of the carpet or a separate thing?<br />
Is it like the edge by the hardwood floor?</em>&#8220;</p>
<p>More importantly, her mind was checking the world to see if her visual understanding of that first &#8216;edge&#8217; was true, and in doing so she had discovered two facts of reality&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>A simple fact about her surroundings</em>:<br />
—the first edge <strong>was</strong> a part of the carpet, and was simply decorative.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>A complex fact about herself</em>:<br />
—information from one sense can be improved upon by using a second!</p>
<p>She was, in the most basic way, checking a premise about what she saw.</p>
<p>As we become adults, partly because our ideas become ever more abstract, premise checking becomes more difficult.  What premise(s) underpin your view of Socialism? Capitalism? Pet ownership? Abortion? Dating rules? Parenting?  Are they right? How do we check them?</p>
<p>Shouldn&#8217;t high school students, by their senior year, be comfortably practiced at introspecting —to habitually check what premises lie behind their ideas, choices, and conclusions?</p>
<p>At 7 months of age, KAKB checked, because she did not want to misjudge.</p>
<p>Tell us your anecdote of a child <strong><em>sho</em>w<em>ing</em></strong> subtle, unexpected, thinking skills.</p>
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		<title>ValuedMinds &#8211; this blog</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2011 22:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Richard Bramwell</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The ValuedMinds blog will address ideas on, — topics raised by popular children&#8217;s books, — issues faced by parents and their children, — the children&#8217;s literature industry (for casual observers) . . . and burning issues raised in the comments. See Introduction &#8211; How Use This Site for a visitor&#8217;s overview of the ValuedMinds site structure and use.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1233" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 284px"><a href="http://valuedminds.com/2011/04/22/valuedminds-this-blog/school-of-athens/" rel="attachment wp-att-1233"><img class="size-full wp-image-1233 " title="School of Athens" src="http://valuedminds.com/wp-content/uploads/School-of-Athens.jpg" alt="Children's books present a host of conflicting ideas." width="274" height="184" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">School of Athens — Raphael</p></div>
<p style="text-align: left; padding-left: 30px;">The ValuedMinds blog will address ideas on,<br />
— topics raised by popular children&#8217;s books,<br />
— issues faced by parents and their children,<br />
— the children&#8217;s literature industry (for casual observers)<br />
. . . and burning issues raised in the comments.</p>
<p>See <a href="http//valuedminds.com/our-approach/introduction/">Introduction &#8211; How Use This Site</a> for a visitor&#8217;s overview of the ValuedMinds site structure and use.</p>
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